multi-function post

relaxation

We've recently gone on a couple vacations. These were (mostly) paid for early in the year. First, we dropped in to Dallas to see some very good friends that we hadn't seen in a while. They were visiting family there.
This last weekend, we got to help them celebrate their anniversary by staying with us in a vacation rental on the Oregon coast. Such a good time. I hadn't felt that good in a long time.
Because these were planned and were no-refunds, it was just more economical to go through with them.

unemployed

I say that because I've actually been unemployed for a month and a half, with no current prospects. I am ashamed to say that I did not receive unemployment benefits because I couldn't find three positions I felt qualified to apply for (Missouri requires three job applications per week to receive benefits). I've resolved to find three that are relatively close to my field and just apply. Whatever they are, even if I know I won't get it.

Therapy

I'm going back to therapy. I've recently (within the last couple weeks) reached out to a new therapist. This therapist is already feeling so much better. She's thorough and goal-oriented. That's something I really need in order to progress. Just seemed like the last one just wanted to chat and not really address any specific issues.

future

What does the future hold for us? I cannot see very far into the future right now, but it will probably include a move. I don't have any idea when, but it has to come. I certainly have questions and concerns about a move.

• Friends - It takes me a while to form strong friendships, and I've formed a few here in Kansas City. I do not look forward to making those connections in a new place.
• Healthcare - Mary has a fantastic healthcare team here at the University of Kansas Health System. I hesitate to leave this team and seek out another rock star team.
• Cost of Living - The cost of living here in Kansas City is very low. I know making a move to almost anywhere is going to mean an increase. However, with us down to a one-income household, I don't know what that means for us.